Everyone has an excuse for why they are sticking with a job that they can’t stand. Some of those excuses are very valid and others can be easily overcome with a little planning on your part. Use this list of excuses to convict you of what might be holding you back from switching to a career that you love. Also, identify that valid excuses you may have, and how you can overcome those excuses in the long-term.
Excuses such as being the only income earner in your family, not being qualified for the work you want to get into, and not knowing what work you might enjoy, are all valid excuses for sticking with your current job that you hate. Read my about devising a three to five year plan, because many of those excuses can be overcome with a little planning on your part. I will never advise someone to just drop everything to pursue a different career if it means that you put your family in jeopardy of harm or extreme discomfort. That’s why you need to be realistic with yourself and know that changing careers takes time. You might need to take some night classes at the community college, get an advanced degree, start volunteering somewhere during your free time, or start reading more books in that field.
However, there are other excuses in that list that are no excuse for not switching to work you love. The fear of change is powerful, but it’s something you need to overcome within yourself. You need to take some risks in your life if you want to be happy and successful. Just because you make $75,000 a year, doesn’t mean you should sacrifice happiness and self-worth for the money. The money is great, but it gets old after a while. Plus, I guarantee you will make more money in your lifetime by doing work that you love, rather than work that you hate. You’ll have more motivation and more creativity to earn more income and earn what you are worth.
If you have any other excuses you want to admit, submit a comment below. Tell me what’s holding you back.


3 responses so far ↓
1 Patrick // Feb 12, 2008 at 10:20 am
I’m working on a job change as I type this… my interview is in less than 3 hours.
Now, I just need to find a sly way out of the office without tipping my hand.
2 Lise // Feb 13, 2008 at 6:16 am
Erik, great post. I totally relate to this, its a sort of apathy that comes when you start to push yourself out of that comfort zone of what you do for work. You know you decide to quit and then suddenly amazingly you start seeing all the things you love about the job, as if it wasn’t too bad anyway, oh why not stay?!!!! For me its as if the apathy is a wall that blocks my way. I am letting it block my way I realise that, I think for too long my job has become a habit like smoking and as much as its bad for my health I am so used to it, almost loathe to give it up, though I continually dream of ‘other things’, which ultimately I probably don’t believe are possible! You’ve got me thinking now….taa L x
3 Minimum Wage // Mar 3, 2008 at 12:59 am
I am a boomer with a liberal arts degree, student loan debt, and a dead-end, minimum-wage job.
Going back to school is not an option because I have no money and cannot get financial aid. (I am one of those evil student loan defaulters Reagan warned you about. I’m paying $60 a month on the loans but that’s not enough to get them out of default.) At my age, I doubt going back to school for a marketable skill would even be worth it.
Any suggestions?
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